2024-04-24 16:39  6park.com
俗话说，三个女人一台戏，有女人在的地方必然少不了是非，有的时候两个女人都能把整个家闹翻天，这其中关系不合的婆媳就是个例子，如果整日相处的两个女人彼此看不顺眼，那么可以想象这个家庭必然也不会幸福。
尤其是现在的年轻人需要独立自由的空间，成了家就想要不被管束，可偏偏就有些拎不清的父母总想着干预子女的生活，本是好心最后却闹得大家都不痛快。
湖南，一位网友在自己的社交平台上分享了一段视频，女子新婚夜被婆婆三番五次的打扰，本来属于两个人大喜的日子却被婆婆搞的一团糟，不仅让女子的心里有了芥蒂，更是为两人的以后埋下了不合的种子。

视频中可以看到，这天是女子和丈夫的婚礼，一整天的婚礼流程下来两人已经很累了，所以在清点好礼金之后二人就想休息了。
可两人躺在床上谁都睡不着，毕竟是正式婚姻的第一天，有些激动是在所难免的，二人都十分享受这安静又幸福的夜晚，如果没有婆婆的打扰，会让两人能够更加感受到幸福的涵义。

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晚上10点，就在小两口刚刚要睡着的时候，婆婆偷偷进了房间，她走到新郎的床边，将新郎搭在身上的衣服拿走，然后贴心的给新郎盖好被子，丝毫没觉得自己的出现已经打扰到了二人。

这个时候女子并没有多说什么，毕竟婆婆疼爱自己的儿子没有错，这一次她忍下了，可没想到凌晨1点的时候婆婆又来了，端着一杯水将新郎叫醒，像照顾小孩子一样的照顾他，本就累了想休息的女子接二连三的被婆婆故意打扰，顿时火气就上来了。
只见她面露不耐烦的神色，再也维持不了表面的平静，掀开被子就离开了房间，丈夫还一脸懵的看着女子，不知道她为何生气。 6park.com

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很显然婆婆就是故意三番五次闯进二人房间的，她生怕二人独处，也生怕儿子的心会偏向儿媳，所以顾不得两人刚结婚就想时刻刷存在感，小两口之间的事更是事事都想参与。

新婚第一天，婆婆就给了女子一个下马威，让女子知道了她的厉害，只是她却没有想到，她的举动看似拿捏了儿媳，实际上却是让儿子在中间受夹板气，她只站在自己的角度为儿子考虑，却忽略了未来的日子是小两口互相陪伴，而作为父母的迟早要退出儿女的生活。
文中婆婆的想法并不是个例，生活中因为婆婆的拎不清而导致家庭矛盾频生的案例更是比比皆是，她自以为是为了儿子好，所以把儿媳排除在家庭之外，还沾沾自喜的以为是对儿媳的管教，可殊不知自己才是造成家庭矛盾的主要原因。 6park.com

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如果婆婆始终意识不到自己的问题并加以改正的话，那么可以想象以后她和儿媳必然会爆发一场斗争，甚至严重了还会让儿子的婚姻受到影响，这样的结果相信都不是大家所希望看到的。

不得不说，任何思维正常的人在这种家庭环境下生活都会感到压抑，儿女长大了，父母该放手的时候就要放手，这世上从来都没有离了父母不能生活的儿女，只有时刻惦记儿女的父母。
当然了，每个人表达感情的方式都不一样，有时候适当放手是对儿女最大的支持。
对此，不知道大家怎么看呢？